It’s October here. The weather is getting cooler and I feel fall in the air.
I don’t know if you’ll read this post this fall, this October or later.
I do hope this post brings you both comfort and enjoyment.
I saw grief drinking a cup of sorrow and called out,
”It tastes sweet, does it not?”
“You’ve caught me,” grief answered,
“and you’ve ruined my business,
how can i sell sorrow when you know
it’s a blessing.
Rumi (1207-1273)
Writing Prompts:
Memories & Relationship:
Write all the memories about the person/situation/place you’re grieving over. What made it special? These memories can be happy, sad, or even mundane.
Express Unfinished Conversations:
Write a letter/poem/song/video to the person/situation you are grieving over, expressing anything you wish you could have said.
Capture Your Emotions:
Describe the emotions you had before, during, and after the loss. How did their feelings change over time? Did any emotions surprise you?
Explore Regrets and Guilt:
Grief can sometimes be accompanied by regrets or feelings of guilt. Explore these emotions in your writing and consider ways of how you can forgive yourself.
Highlight Support Systems:
Write about the people who offered support during the grieving process. How did their presence and contributions affect your grief experience?
Share Coping Strategies:
What coping strategies have you used or discovered during your grief journey? What helped you navigate your pain?
Reflect on Changes:
Grief often leads to personal growth and transformation. Reflect on how you’ve changed since the loss and what you’ve learned about yourself.
Celebrate Contributions:
Celebrate the impact the person/ thing you lost had on you. Write about the impact they had on you.
Visualize Healing:
Write a passage envisioning a future where the pain has eased and full healing has taken place. What does life look like in this healed state?
Grief is a pain
we don’t expect.
It comes in waves and
in varying intensity.
We all have experienced grief.
If you feel it and not
avoid it or suppress it,
it is a welcome friend.
Take time for you
What brave thing(s) will you do this moment? Drop me a note if you like.
I wish you well,
Angela